It might be a Valentines day gift for your new squeeze, or maybe you want to spice up your anniversary. Or, maybe you just want to buy some sexy lingerie for your girlfriend cos her wardrobe is looking a bit, uhh… Not sexy.
We’ve all been there buddy. But if you’re thinking of buying underwear for your girlfriend, hold them horses. It’s not just a case of picking out a nice matching number you spotted online and, ta-da! She’s modelling that sexy outfit for your viewing pleasure.
So if you do want to buy your girlfriend underwear, we’re going to do the guy thing and help you out here.
The good news is: You can actually get her on board with your lingerie buying plans quite simply.
So lets find out how…. First things first though.
Buying for the right occasion
If you want to buy girlfriend underwear, you need to make sure you’re matching it to the right occasion. By which I mean, there are some opportunities to buy underwear which are better than others.
Obviously it depends on your girl, and your relationship. So play this as you see relevant…
But avoid buying her sexy underwear for HER birthday.
Why? Well, its not for her really is it? It’s a bit like buying her a beer fridge which is obviously for you. Get her a nice thoughtful gift instead.
Alright, so you know knickers a shit birthday present. But Valentines? Anniversary? Even Christmas…? OK, game on.
How can you buy your girlfriend sexy underwear or lingerie and get away with it?
1. Sound out her choice
There is nothing wrong with being direct and just ASKING her what she’d be comfortable wearing. In fact, if you follow no other points on this list, make this the one you DO follow.
She’s a sexy, beautiful and intelligent woman, right?
Tell her you really want to get her some sizzlin’ hot lingerie for your anniversary, or for Valentines. Ask her what she’d wear for you, or if you have something in mind, even mention it.
Honestly, this is probably the best option and if she’s not down with direct, then she probably won’t be down to wear that strappy latex camisole or whatever you’ve spotted.
2. Check her sizing
Your girl is size 8, right? Of course. But before you make that assumption, make sure to check. Theres nothing women like less than squeezing into ill-fitting underwear that makes them feel like a lace wrapped sausage.
If she has a favourite bra and panty set, check the sizing and make a note.
If you’re buying her shoes, double double check her size. As you might find yourself, sizing varies from brand to brand. And for most women, their size varies throughout the month (thanks to the menstrual cycle and its water retention qualities).
If you want to buy your girlfriend sexy lingerie, make sure to check her sizing.
Check. And then check again.
3. Buy something she’d be comfortable in
OK, this doesn’t necessarily mean you need to buy her a onesie or a loose fitting satin gown. What this means is that she might not be comfortable wearing latex for whatever reason.
Or, she might not like wearing push-up cleavage enhancing bras.
Of course only you know your girl and you know her tastes and her capacity for kink. But if you know she’d embrace the dominatrix inside and probably crush your balls with those sexy heels you’ve got your eye on, fuckin A bro. Go for it.
4. Buy quality
Women like to feel like they’re worth the investment of your time and money. And this is also the case when it comes to clothing, and especially buying underwear for your girlfriend.
Buy her cheap nylon knickknacks and she’ll feel cheap and probably undervalued.
So if you want her to feel like a million dollars (and give you a million dollar experience) buy her quality lingerie. This also means it’ll look better on and she’ll enjoy wearing it more (meaning more chance of her wearing it more than once).
Some of the best places to buy girlfriend underwear and fantasy outfits include:
SexSuperstore
This emporium of bedroom fun has everything from quality lingerie and underwear to fetish gear and more. They ship internationally too.
LushPlay
Another quality choice for classy lingerie which your girlfriend will happily slip into (and out of).
Amazon
Oh yes! Amazon is actually stacked full of sexy lingerie and more, so you can even buy girlfriend underwear and get it delivered tomorrow (or today if you’ve got Prime). Sort items by top rated or pick well known brands such as AnnSummers or Victorias Secret.
Belle Lingerie
Quality sexy underwear sets that she will actually WANT TO WEAR. And not just for sexy night… Definitely worth a look.
5. Make it fun
So you’ve bought her a mystery porn star outfit and you’re expecting her to get dressed up and give you the ride of your life? Just remember, these things work both ways. So… Giver her something to work with.
A sexy stay at home date night is always a fun way to turn up the heat. So maybe treat her to a meal and a bottle of wine, and YOU make an effort and dress up in your best suit too.
She’ll more than likely be happy to match you and rise to the occasion.
Better still, treat her to a dirty weekend away in a spa or boutique hotel where you guys can get down and dirty with ease. Put her in the mood and she’s more likely to wear whatever the fuck freaky outfit you bought.
6. Show your appreciation
If you’ve gone to all the effort of buying sexy underwear for your girlfriend, let her know how awesome she looks. Tell her she looks like a goddess, give her the best sex of her life (or at least of that month) and maybe even say, ‘Hey thanks for dressing up, you look fuckin awesome in that set’.
A little thanks goes a long way.
In summary
If you want to buy your girlfriend underwear, make sure to pick your moment or occasion right. Make sure you’ve ‘got her’ right, by which I mean her style and her sizing. Pick quality items and make it worth her while…
Make sure to check out Bella Lingerie and Sex Superstore for the sexiest and best quality kink wear too!